Once in a while, we may feel unloved as a result of many factors at play. We feel unattractive enough, we feel vulnerable, and we blame it all to ourselves. Sometimes, in our quest to find our one true love, we feel the need to talk to love psychic readers to make sure our choices are aligned with how they see it happening for us. But the truth is, no matter the situation, it always gets better. Today, this article aims to provide you tips that will find useful to attract love around you using the Law of Attraction.
Always dwell on the positive side
Like what a common saying goes, “Inhale the positive and exhale the negative.” Your negative thoughts like, “He does not like me,” or, “She will never see me as who I really am as person,” would not help you in the long run. Everyone is worthy of anyone’s attention, love, and affection. Do not lose hope. Begin to love yourself more and appreciate the great qualities that you possess. Love is all around you. Open your doors to let the love in. When you are open-minded to things, you are gradually attracting more positive energy. And only time will tell when that specific love that you so want and need will come knocking at your door.
Believe in yourself
Believing in yourself will probably be the best advice that we can give anyone. Know that, no matter how you are doing now or no matter what mistakes you may have done in the past, you are a great and awesome person. And do not let anyone else tell you otherwise. Loving yourself is the greatest love of all, just like what Whitney Houston said which is true in every word. Your confidence will translate to how you carry yourself and your vibration will attract many people to you. Who knows you maybe already attracting your one true love?
Smile like nothing is wrong
Show those pearly whites. Not only that smiling shows off your great set of teeth, smiling also shows people how great and fun of a person you are. Smiling lets people know you are happy to be with them and that you appreciate the good times. Do not forget to do the things that you love, the things that will make you happier. If walking around the park is your thing, then smile to the people you bump into. Strike a random conversation with a stranger and make their day happier by sharing your happy memories and stories. Throw in a kind word by complimenting their dress or their hair. These kind words ripple an endless wave, so you should keep giving good comments.
Be okay with being single
There is nothing wrong with being single. Period. But if you keep complaining about your sad life being single, then you will be single for a long time. For that is not how the law of attraction works. Make peace with being single. Learn that being single means more time for you. Start new projects that make you happy. Were you not able to go on hikes when you were still in a relationship because your partner does not like long walks? Then go on hikes alone! There is better time to focus on yourself and have unlimited me-time than being out of a relationship. Do not give off a vibe that screams, “I so want to have a boyfriend now,” or, “I am incomplete with a girlfriend.” Your mantra should always be, “I complete me.” The aim of getting in a relationship is finding someone who complements your lifestyle, attitude, and way of thinking. Love is not something about completing yourself, because you must learn that, with or without someone right now, you are 100% complete.
Expecting nothing eliminates disappointment
We can give you a thousand ways you can meet someone. Your college friend may introduce someone to you, you may meet someone in the subway, or you may find someone really interesting on Tinder. But confining your belief to just one way will disappoint you in the long run. Open yourself to a lot of possibilities. Who knows if you will meet someone in the coffee shop on a Monday evening?
No matter how paradoxical it may sound, you will not find love if you are actively looking for it. Especially to the point where you are already doing things that you do not normally do like going to bars on a Saturday night. This is wrong on so many levels especially when you enjoy Saturday nights at home watching your favorite TV shows. But when you finally meet someone, do not expect that they really are the one. Spend more time with them by going on a series of dates so you know whether you two are compatible or not. Surrender yourself to a lot of possibilities.
Heal yourself and drop present baggage
If you walk around with a heavy emotional baggage hoping to find love, then you are doing it the wrong way. Take time to move on and heal your heart from the pains of the past. This act is a preparation for when you find the next one, or the next one finds you. There are emotional wounds that need to be attended to. Make sure you start the healing process as it is only fair to you and to your one true love to start out fresh – clean slate, without baggage, and free from any past trauma. If you are wanting closure for your previous relationship, write him or her a letter which says you are now moving on, that the time with them was not a waste, and that you learned many things from him or her.
These are just some of the things that will let the Law of Attraction work for you. If we missed anything or you want to share your own story, feel free to leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you.
Author: Nina Brown
Nina Brown, 26, has been a believer of the power of Law of Attraction for years and wishes more people should get to know it. Brown lives in Tampa, Florida with her two-year-old daughter, Marissa.
